Bhubaneswar: It is very difficult for any woman who is divorced or separated to deal with the emotions, pain and depression. Especially when the lady memories come straight in front of the people son time and again it hits the mental peace. When the woman has a child the burden and the pain multiplies to many folds because then the child takes the brunt on a major level. There is no doubt that the woman is doubly affected as a mother and as a partner but on a psychological level the children are grossly affected. Their lives, mind, innocence, relationship and so on , mostly everything gets traumatic.
It takes a huge courage to recover and make the children also cope up with life. There are instances when the women prefer to embrace new beginnings or new life by accepting a new partner to give their children a good, healthy childhood, or family life. But in most cases it is seen that the outcome is negative. A woman with children from the previous marriage is never accepted with open arms by the men’s side. When the case is vise- versa it is managed and accepted by the second woman.
The harassment both the partners and the family involved goes through is inexplicable. On top of everything, the legal battle, mud slinging, blame game and the prolonged period of legal process like the condition worse.
Any relationship needs respect, trust, understanding and love. If these basic things are lacking then it’s nothing but a disaster. Now-a-days, the rate of failed marriages are very high in our country. The reason being the lack of patience, understanding, acceptance and inclusiveness. There could be any arguments and opinions regarding this matter but the primary concern should be the life, and future of the children who get badly affected by such decisions and later in their lives can hardly receive from the tormenting memories. So decisions in this regard should be well thought of.
-OdishaAge
